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Do you tend to set up standards for yourself that are super hard or almost impossible to achieve?
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Do you feel very discouraged, sad or do you feel that you have achieved nothing, if you do not meet the above-mentioned standards, that you have created for yourself?
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Have you noticed the tendency of being highly critical of yourself or other people?
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Does your desire to achieve your goals often interfere with you enjoying the process of reaching those goals, or the process of learning and developing?
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Do you feel that you have recently or further into a distant past, developed an excessive worry of being judged or disapproved by others?
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Have you ever considered the fact that perfectionism might have affected some of your relationships or even ability to relax and enjoy some rest time?
Perfectionism
If, by answering the questions above, made you think that would be useful to talk to someone who might be able to help, please don’t hesitate to contact us. We will talk with you about how our therapeutic and counselling approaches will help you overcome problems related to perfectionism.
The reality is that perfectionism has recently become a growing concern in our Society. We are often told about the importance of doing different activities or behaviours in certain ways or that is important not to make mistakes. These growing societal expectations can contribute to perfectionism. Of course, there are other factors that might contribute to developing unhelpful perfectionistic tendencies, assumptions or even beliefs.
During our counselling sessions or psychotherapeutic discussions will explore and better understand how perfectionism has been affecting your life. We will also help you develop new skills strategies to overcome perfectionism.
If you are ready to address any problems or concerns you might have related to perfectionism, please call us at 647-973-1415 or email us.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
Therapy for perfectionism helps people overcome unhelpful or rigid self-critical thoughts. It teaches healthier ways to think, set realistic goals, and handle mistakes. Over time, this can reduce stress and improve confidence in daily life.
Perfectionism counselling focuses on identifying patterns such as fear of failure and self-criticism. A therapist will help you challenge negative thoughts and build more balanced thinking. You may also learn relaxation and coping skills to reduce pressure.
You may need perfectionism therapy if you feel stressed, anxious, or stuck because things are never “good enough.” It can also help if you avoid tasks out of fear of making mistakes or feel upset when things are not perfect.
Youth perfectionism counselling in Vaughan helps youth who feel pressure to be perfect in school or peer-related activities. Therapists use simple tools, such as games, mindfulness and relaxation techniques and conversations, to help children and youth manage stress and build self-esteem and healthy levels of confidence.
To find therapy for perfectionism in your area, you can search online or ask a doctor for recommendations. Look for licensed therapists who have experience with perfectionism and anxiety-related concerns.
Yes, perfectionist counselling can lead to long-term change. It helps people develop healthier habits, accept mistakes, and feel more balanced. With practice, you can become more flexible and less hard on yourself.
